My own daughter is moving to Alabama, from here in Oregon where both sets of grandparents live. Her husband has no job to go to, although he thinks he does
, no family other than a 21 year-old BIL and no plan other than to be in AL.
Its caused a rift between my wife, myself and her. They will go 30 minutes away to see his parents but won't bother to travel 5 minutes across town to see us. Yes, I know what this is and I know lessons will be learned, time & money will be wasted and I won't see my grandson for a while (he just turned a year old).