Well I appreciate all the input. Should have a 3913 in about a week or so. Probably paid a little more than I should have.
Got a line on a slightly used Ruger SR9. I like the Kahr also, maybe I'll pick one up in .40. I like the 1911 9mm and the small 1911 .45s too. So many guns and so little money. Maybe I can get billt to adopt me.